Talking Mats is a useful tool to help parents see their child’s point of view.
The stage for each parent when their child also has an opinion about what is best for them can come as a surprise and is sometimes challenging. For parents of children with disabilities it can be even more so. This story is an example of how Talking Mats helped parents hear their own child’s voice amongst the background noise of the voices from health, education social and voluntary services.
David was in his final year of primary school. He attended a small village school and was transitioning to a large mainstream secondary. He has mobility problems due to cerebral palsy and uses a wheelchair. He can walk very short distances with effort using a walker and in his primary school used this method to move around the classroom and go to the hall for lunch and PE. This was a functional way to meet 2 of his targets : changing position and walking practise. His parents wanted this to continue when he transitioned to secondary school, although the health professionals involved felt it was going to be too difficult given the greater distances in the new building. An electric wheelchair was proposed for this new context. David’s parents were finding this next step challenging.
One of the professionals involved wanted to find out what David felt was important in his new school and used Talking Mats as a way of supporting him to think about various factors. The top scale used was ‘important/ not sure/ not important’.
David’s mat clearly showed that what was important to him in his new school was being with his friends. When his parents saw his mat they realised that this would be impossible if he was to move from class to class using his walker and it helped them make the transition to seeing him in an electric wheelchair. It also helped them see things from David’s point of view. They were more than happy to fit walking practise into a different part of his busy day because they had heard what was important to him.
Talking Mats allows different voices to be seen and heard.The name has been changed to protect identity.